One call can save your life and provide you with a safe house in your area. Memorize the phone number to the National Domestic Violence Hotline (800) 799-SAFE (7233).
Steps to get out
Get a mail box at a commercial location and do not make a change of address with the post office because your new address is very easy to find.
Instead, establish your address in the town or city you are planning to move to with a private outfit. (Boxes, Etc for instance)... http://bit.ly/cFtxUW